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Wednesday, March 31, 2010

The Message of Music

I LOVE music! It is a beautiful gift that musicians give that speaks volumes. This is the reason I use music to inspire me in writing and speaking. The words often give the extra punch that my message needs. Have you ever thought of using meaningful songs to improve your written or spoken messages? Music:
  • Promotes thought.
  • Instigates introspection.
  • Speaks UP and OUT.
  • Entertains listeners.
  • Explains emotions.
  • Soothes broken hearts.
  • Captivates body and soul.
  • Encourages movement.
  • Reinforces beliefs...and so much more.
This week I heard a meaningful song by "Kutless" titled What Faith Can Do. The title is powerful because it is almost a 'teaser' saying: "If you listen to this song, you'll know what faith can do!" And if you listen to the song, it does exactly that, but even more, because this song accomplishes all the points listed above. As we celebrate Passover and Easter, the words from this song, solidfy my personal faith and reiterate my belief that faith can move mountains, give hope, answer prayers, mend broken hearts and encourage us to jump out of the boat and into the water, which is what writers and speakers face every time they share their messages. I encourage you to listen to this song and see what message you receive from it, and then write about it. And, in the process:
  • Have faith in yourself during this Holy week.
  • Take time to develop your goals as a communicator or messenger.
  • Listen to music to refine your message(s).

Thinking about doing something is good.
Planning for it is better;
DOING it is defeating the urge to quit.

Wednesday, March 24, 2010

Choosey Communicators Choose Words Well

Did you know that there is absolutely nothing wrong with inventing your own words? We do it all the time. This past week, I was brainstorming with a couple of women for an upcoming event and a new word rolled off my tongue...'FUNFESSIONAL'...I was shocked when I thought of it, but it fit the purpose behind our brainstorming. I have since "Googled" the word and found out that I didn't invent it, but it is a great word that describes someone who is a professional but knows how to integrate professionalism with fun. Jamie Broderick, has accomplished this mission of combining fun and professionalism in the culture of her organization, Network Now.

Have you invented words? Have you thought about sharing them with anyone? Another word that I frequently use is 'FANTABULOUS.' I have no idea if I thought of that one on my own or if I heard it along the way somewhere, but I love how it puts a different spin on fantastic and fabulous. Sometimes, the English language lacks enough descriptive words, which is why it's fun to try to invent new ones.

Each year Webster's adds new words to their dictionary. Recently added words include: BLOG, GOOGLE and BRAINFREEZE. Those are everyday words for us now, but 25 years ago, we weren't familiar with those terms (brainfreeze maybe, but certainly not the other two).

Words, when used appropriately, are building blocks to deeper communication. Words, when not used appropriately, are the missing link in broken relationships and hurtful insults. When communicating, try to broaden your vocabulary by adding variety to your message. Not long, obnoxious words that will mute your message, but fun words that will instigate thought with your receivers.

CHALLENGE
Post your new words on the Communicators' Clique and let's see how creative we can be.